Two men passed each other in the street one day. One mistook the look in the eye of the other as something of an insult and was instantly filled with rage. For perhaps he had grown up in a family that had taught such sensitivities, or he or someone he was related to had been hurt in the past by someone else who had the same look. Or his community, even society itself, had placed blame on these looks for the reason behind the hardships of their own kind. Who knows? Possibly his friends, through lack of understanding, had condemned these looks as those given by freaks or deviants and in fearfulness had labelled them unworthy. Whatever the reason he felt so outraged at this person and the look in his eye that he lashed out against him there in the street; abusing, hissing, spitting, demeaning, and cursing.
The other man raised his head to the sky and laughed and threw his arm around the angry one's shoulder and said, "You
are RIGHT! I am all those things. Come now lad, I will buy you a refreshment and then another and we will share tales of our travels and families and we will eat and drink some more and laugh and find fair company and
then, when it has grown dark, we will come back outside and you can tell me again what I am and we will both laugh and bark
like dogs at the moon. Because what are these words? They are not you or I. These words are mere expressions of the outrage we both share at the unfairness of life: a common view we will have found in the ensuing hours. For there is no gain nor profit in either of us thinking the other is evil because of our looks, customs, beliefs or heritage. I may be different than you and you from me but by the end of this evening...
...we will be just two dogs barking at the
moon!"
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"Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding." ~ Mahatma Gandhi
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
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Oh, how I wish I had laughed, thrown off the insult and thrown my arms around a friend, and laughed at the moon more often.
ReplyDeleteOh, how grateful I am that I have done just that often enough to keep all the relationships that are precious to me.
This had some bittersweetenss for me today.